LDRs

Hola people of earth. I know that I haven’t been blogging much lately. It’s due to my laziness, but I guess I am back since my bestie is blogging too I have to blog. So let’s dive straight into it shall we.
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LDR, it sounds like a disease name right. It is one, but not technically. Long distance relationships. Something I experienced last year for the first time and I am currently experiencing it too. A lot of people run away from the very idea of having a LDR. And I understand why. Statically speaking it says that 90% of long distance relationships end up in failure. I think all that is due to the lack of communication, missing each other terribly, not being able to see each other or be physically present. All of these factors are the recipe for disaster in any LDR  Couples who never experienced it or have no background in it usually are not aware of this, and it’s the main reason most of them end up in failure. And the main reason that most of LDRsfail, is the fear from it. Couples fear and'\’or think that it’s not worth it to go through the trouble of it. So they lie to themselves and support their lie with the statistics. I know so many people who ended their relationships with people who could be their soul mates just because “they don’t want to go through the pain”.
As for me, I knew it would be hard. I knew how much I will suffer, I knew that it will take a lot of time to get over the idea that I am in a different place and my partner is in a different place. But yet we decided to be one of those 10% LDRs that will work. And guess what, because we fed ourselves with positive energy about it. It worked !  I am not saying it wasn’t hard or anything, it was so hard. But believing in the love you have for your partner and that you can actually go through whatever obstacles LDRs will throw at you is the main factor for it to work.
I thank god for giving me the strength to go through it, And I also thank him for blessing me with the best bestie\wife'\girlfriend in the whole world. I wouldn’t be able to go through it without you. Even though you make my life hell when you are not in the mood. But yet we make things up and go back to being Marshal and Lilly. I love you and may forever we stay strong <3